I’I’m a bit of a contradiction—extremely petite, slender yet voluptuous, with an exceptionally fit, visibly defined figure and a background in modeling and a really directed and nerdy set of academic pursuits. . I love dressing beautifully, but I’m equally happy with my hands in the garden or cooking for people I care about. I spent many of my formative years getting degrees from: UCLA, Stanford, Stanford Law, and SloanI. I also had the privilege of raising my genius stepchildren in the Bay Area for a little over ten years.

I enjoy making people feel welcome, whether through a favorite meal, flowers I’ve grown, or simply taking the time to listen. Long dinners, neighborhood board-game nights, and quiet evenings at home suit me well. My faith is meaningful to me, but I respect other beliefs. I share my home with a cat and five cheerful budgies, while clever crows and occasional raccoons visit my greenhouse. Making a house feel like a home comes naturally to me—with warmth, beauty, good food, and care for the people in it.

I would never own a personalized license plate, but if I did, it would say “Grateful.” I value people far more than possessions and enjoy connections of all kinds, from easygoing companionship to a spark of romance. I appreciate a man who cares about his family and community, brings his own perspective, and knows how to laugh. Intelligence catches my attention; kindness, confidence, and humor keep it. Whatever form a connection takes, there’s much to be said for good company, mutual chemistry, and having fun together.